I prefer Sequel::Dataset capabilities to Arel’s Relation for several reasons, not least of which is Sequel’s row_proc. Which lets you bend reality and perhaps time itself when you want the best of both worlds:
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Now if you have
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you can do things like this in the controller, using Sequel’s querying capabilities…
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…and naturally this in the view
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Drawbacks:
- You’ll end up having 2 db connections – one for ActiveRecord and one for Sequel. Which is fine unless you have a transaction and one connection does a write which you’re expecting to show up in the other connection. Like in unit tests. So turn transactional fixtures off for those. 
- Calling ActiveRecord::Base.instantiate skips callbacks. I’m sure there’s an easy way to hook them back in again.